"Do what is most important first, and the rest can wait."
-B. HatmakerSo I was catching up on some emails(I am a part of a mom's yahoo group for moms on the northside of Indy- and I get emails constantly with all of the days posts which I rarely make time to read) and one of the topics today is about whether you are an Alpha or Beta mom. I loved this quote that one of the mom's tells herself and her daughter! I really need to listen to her advice as I know that more often than not I am more concerned with cleaning the house/doing laundry/dishes/etc. before sitting down to play with the kids:( I need to prioritize my time better- spending time with my children should take priority over a "clean" house but all to often- it doesn't! Anyway, I thought it was a great quote and I hope to apply it to myself more often and hey maybe you can to! So which are you....."Alpha" or "Beta"?
"Alpha" mom--the multitasking, type A mom who is just as good at helping her kids with long division as blogging about parenting and running her own business. She takes Super Mommyhood to a whole new level, running schedules, juggling demands, and making homemade cookies for the bake sale.
Then there are the "Beta" moms--the Slacker moms, who just want everyone to lighten up. They might forget a child's doctor's appointment or decide not to sign their kid up for gymnastics because it's too much of a pain, but they don't care because they figure motherhood isn't a race. They believe that fostering independence and creativity in kids is more important than classes, schedules, and exposure to edifying activities.
I think that I am a little of both.....and the not so good qualities for that- I am definitely a multi-tasker who bites off WAY MORE than I can chew but at the same time I am also the one who is constantly running late and no my kids aren't in a lot of after school activities(although that has more to do with cost than laziness)! Anyway- I would love to hear how you would rate yourself! Have a great day-
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Wow another post without pictures:( Sorry I will work on that!